Why
Many Autistic adults want romantic relationships but often find them hard to start or maintain. This can be due to limited opportunities to meet people, social anxiety and communication differences. Negative stereotypes and discrimination also make things harder.
Dating apps like Tinder and OkCupid have become a popular way to meet partners and may be a good fit for Autistic people, offering more control over communication, greater freedom for self-expression and a better chance of connecting with others. But they also come with risks, like online bullying and harassment.
Despite their popularity, there’s very little research on how Autistic people actually experience dating apps.
How do Autistic people use dating apps, what are their experiences, and how can they be better supported and kept safe?
The research
completed an online survey
took part in a follow-up interview
Research focus areas
Connections
How Autistic people use dating apps and the types of connections formed
Decision-making
Decisions about disclosing autism and responses from others
Victimisation
Experiences of victimisation
Perspectives
Views on whether dating apps are helpful for Autistic people
Ideas
Ideas for how apps could be made safer and more inclusive
What we learnt
Opportunities
Dating apps:
- help Autistic adults connect and broaden social networks
- lower barriers by giving Autistic adults more control over communication
- allow Autistic adults to filter profiles to find more compatible partners.
Challenges
Using dating apps:
- takes a toll on Autistic adult's energy and self-esteem
- causes a dilemma around autism disclosure
- causes safety concerns, particularly for women and LGBTQIA+ participants.
Making a difference
Download tips for Autistic adults using dating apps
Research team
- Dr Vicki Gibbs: Head of Research, ARCAP
- Dr Ru Ying Cai: Research Fellow, ARCAP
- Dr Chris Edwards: Adjunct Research Fellow, Griffith University and Research Fellow, ARCAP
- Dr Abbey Love: Research Fellow, ARCAP
- Dr Amy Pearson: Assistant Professor, Durham University
Started
2025
Ends
2025
Funding
Aspect (Autism Spectrum Australia)
