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Dr Vicki Gibbs from the Aspect Research Centre for Autism Practice (ARCAP) describes a new research project exploring the experiences of Autistic adults navigating the world of online dating, with the goal of developing resources to support Autistic people in safely using dating apps and websites.

Just like for non-Autistic adults, online dating sites and mobile dating apps have become a common way for Autistic people to look for connection. However, there is very little known about how Autistic people use and experience these apps.

For some, online platforms can offer a more structured and flexible way to meet new people. We’ve heard from Autistic adults participating in our study that there’s often less pressure to interpret non-verbal cues, more time to process conversations and a greater sense of control over how people present themselves.

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It brings, like, the barrier of entry down towards meeting new people ... you can sort of put yourself out there and showcase your interests a bit more easily than meeting people in person.

Autistic adult
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There was a degree of certainty about how the conversation started.

Autistic adult

But the experience isn’t always positive. Autistic people can face risks like online bullying and harassment, ghosting, or misunderstandings about communication styles and this can make dating apps feel more stressful than supportive.

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I have gotten 'matches' however people seldom reply when I send a simple hello. I do not understand this at all.

Autistic adult
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There was definitely a cycle of feeling like it was just all too overwhelming, and all the people out there are just rubbish.

Autistic adult

We want to better understand these experiences so we can work towards making dating apps safer, fairer and more inclusive for Autistic people.

Take part in our research study

Our research study is investigating how Autistic people use dating apps, their experiences and how they can be better supported and kept safe.

You are welcome to take part in our research if:

  • you are an Autistic adult (18+) (professionally diagnosed or self-identified) AND
  • you have used an app or website to try and meet a romantic or intimate partner (including casual hook-ups and long-term relationships).

You will complete an anonymous 15-minute online survey about how you have used apps or websites, relationships you may have formed, and any negative experiences such as bullying and harassment.

At the end of the survey you will be given the option to participate in a follow-up interview to help us learn more about your experiences using dating apps and websites.

When you complete the survey, Aspect will donate AU$2 to your choice of three international charities.

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