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Written by Mathew Townsend, Autistic father, social entrepreneur, author and speaker.

If you are a health professional who works with Autistic fathers, here are some tips that can make a big difference:

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Give clear, step‑by‑step explanations

Avoid vague instructions. Be direct, concrete and specific.

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Offer written information

Autistic dads often process better through text than speech.

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Be mindful of sensory environments

Dim lights, reduce noise where possible, and offer quiet waiting areas.

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Don’t assume lack of emotion

Autistic communication styles can be misinterpreted. We may express care differently, but the love is there.

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Include us in the conversation


We’re not “helpers” – we’re parents. Speak to us directly, not just to our partners.

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